Whether you trust it or not, in Chinese feng shui, a better relationship results in harmony and peace.
This is working out between me and mum lately. I used to argue with her all the time. When I think of the root cause of any little arguments between us is that we are so much alike - dominant, difficult to please, a bad communicator, etc. I was mirroring what she did. Now she is an old lady, I cannot expect her to change. I need to change. Compromising without losing my stand point is working magic for our relationship. This week, she even listens to my suggestion when she normally turned deaf to what I said. Isn't that wonderful ?!
